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Just FYI... "Yes, you can."

But don't be creepy about it.

Date: 2008-04-24 01:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] minnehaha.livejournal.com
But is it possible ask without being creepy about it?

B

Date: 2008-04-24 01:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drewan.livejournal.com
Yes, actually there is. You say please, and accept no for an answer without asking again.

Date: 2008-04-24 01:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] minnehaha.livejournal.com
It might be different with all men. When it's men asking women, there is an inherent power imbalance that's hard to overcome.

B

Date: 2008-04-24 01:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drewan.livejournal.com
That's the sad part. There shouldn't be a power imbalance.

Of course, I really can't directly address this power imbalance because I'm not involved in that kind of interaction with females. They all seem pretty tough and scary to me!

Date: 2008-04-24 02:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daedala.livejournal.com
*cracks up*

I'm sorry to inform you that your magical body will not heal my high school wounds.

Date: 2008-04-24 02:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drewan.livejournal.com
Huh?

Perhaps the true measure of a person is how they survive high school.

Date: 2008-04-24 02:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daedala.livejournal.com
Oh, the original post was all about how access to the sacred Cosmic Titties was washing away his high-school trauma. No, really.

I survived high school through medication, memory repression, and going into a children's home. You?

Date: 2008-04-24 03:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drewan.livejournal.com
Oh... I didn't read that deep into his posting.

I survived by going to the arts high school.

Date: 2008-04-24 02:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stealthpup.livejournal.com
It's amazing how much meaning can be gleaned from so few words ONCE THE CONTEXT IS KNOWN.

(Yeah, this was cryptic until I went further down my flist.)

Date: 2008-04-24 03:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drewan.livejournal.com
Sorry... didn't feel like explain the whole "open source boops project" stuff.

I'm always been a prettty "open soure" kind of guy, as long as someone asks. I have no problem saying no, but I hate it when other people say no for me.

Date: 2008-04-24 04:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stealthpup.livejournal.com
No worries. It's weird because I consider myself a fannish sort of guy, but I haven't been to a con in almost a decade.

It's been an interesting brouhaha. I still get surprised when I find friends (not just in the LJ sense, either) on opposite ends of a feisty kerfluffle.

Date: 2008-04-24 10:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cakmpls.livejournal.com
I have no problem saying no, but I hate it when other people say no for me.

Wow. Nicely summed up!

Date: 2008-04-24 03:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] moonpuppy61.livejournal.com
If I remember the next time I see you, I can practice my non-creepiness. Please be sure to rate my success.

I got a good chuckle

Date: 2008-04-24 03:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] freelikebeer.livejournal.com
out of your choice of userpics for this post.

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